Do you believe everything happens for a reason, or that nothing happens to us by chance? Biological beings are electromagnetic in nature. We have an electric side and a magnetic side. Our electric side is our yang selves, our doing, acting selves, the masculine polarity/left brain/right sides of who we each are regardless of gender. And our yin, receiving, accepting sides are our magnetic sides, the left side/right brain, the feminine. Yin energy has just as much power as yang, but it is an indrawing power. Our feminine sides, our magnetic selves, draw experiences, which explains why we do not live in a random universe.

We draw, or magnetize, exactly what we need to experience in order to grow. And this is why, even if I can’t see it, even if something “justifiably” enrages me, I know I have some responsibility for drawing it to my reality. This is how I “create” my own reality, regardless of whether I like or am conscious of what I have created. I only “choose” my reality consciously insofar as my magnetic/emotional essence is conscious. So often these parts are subconscious due to being chronically denied, but still consist of magnetic emotional essence drawing realities. Here, consciousness is “out of the loop”.

Many of us are so electric in so much of our consciousness that when we haven’t actively executed an action and obtained an obvious result, we tell ourselves we couldn’t have had responsibility. Culturally we are still in the process of learning that magnetic essence draws experiences “out of thin air”. This is how pain is self-created (though never consciously desirable) although most people don’t accept this as a truth. We feel justified in blaming others because when “they do it to me” it’s all “their fault” and none of ours. When in blame, we are righteous victims only. This is a distortion our world has been running on since the beginning. The truth buried in unexpressed, magnetic emotions “underneath” the blame can give us significant clues as to where our responsibility lies. But, in most cases, we can’t access it unless those emotions are vibrated. In order to come to balance in any given conflict, we must first intend to discover what our responsibility is.

Pleasant experiences reflect the accepted, vibrating, conscious parts of self; unpleasant ones reflect the unaccepted, nonvibrating, unconscious parts. When we draw pleasant experiences we feel joy, enthusiasm, passion, etc and hopefully we express those — they are just as important to accept and express as the hard feelings. With unpleasant ones we are likewise called upon to express our true response, be it terror, grief, hurt, rage, etc. When we don’t express our natural emotional response we get a more intense experience than last time. The magnetic essence, just a little more intensely denied and impacted than it was, now needs a stronger experience in order to overcome resistance and trigger itself into life. Living things have a vibration, and dead things don’t. The dead parts of ourselves, judged so long ago to be unacceptable and wrong, can come back to life, but until we undeny them, they sit still in the dark, awaiting acceptance for the treasure they have to offer.